This was the message on my desk calendar on December 15th, 2005, the day of Terry's transplant. I tore it off and kept it (and later scanned it) because it ...

December 26th, 2003. I always describe it as the worst day of my life so far. It's the uncertainty that gets you, isn't it? Once you know what you're dealing ...

Terry first got ill a few years before we started seeing each other. He'd been on holiday with friends, and, on the flight home, his legs swelled up to alarming ...