This was the message on my desk calendar on December 15th, 2005, the day of Terry's transplant. I tore it off and kept it (and later scanned it) because it ...
December 26th, 2003. I always describe it as the worst day of my life so far. It's the uncertainty that gets you, isn't it? Once you know what you're dealing ...
Terry first got ill a few years before we started seeing each other. He'd been on holiday with friends, and, on the flight home, his legs swelled up to alarming ...
Yesterday Terry went for his regular kidney transplant checkup, and I’m happy to report that everything is fine: yay for Terry’s kidney! . All of the blood results were in…
This week, Terry took the very last step in his transplant journey, by having an operation to disconnebct the fistula he used to receive dialysis through. I, naturally, called a Vigil. Starting ...
... and there's reason to believe Maybe this year will be better than the last... Every December I make it my mission to quote the Counting Crows' Long December at least once. ...