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How blogging changed my life

It’s not an exaggeration to say that blogging changed my life.

I know it SOUNDS like an exaggeration, obviously, but it’s true: I’ve written before about how much I hated office work, but because I couldn’t really think of anything I could do instead, I assumed my entire life would be spent doing something I hated, and feeling totally miserable as a result. I was a right little ray of sunshine, to be sure.

Well, the rest of that story is one you probably already know, if you’re a regular reader: I quit my job, started a blog, and here I am, writing this post while still not quite believing that THIS is my job now, because how nuts is that, seriously?

So, blogging changed my life in one huge, almost incomprehensible kind of way – but it also changed my life in lots of little ways, too. Here are just four of them…
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It made me appreciate the little things

Bloggers are always being criticised for being permanently attached to their phones, and I’m not gonna lie – I left my phone at home one day last week, and when I realised I didn’t have it with me, I just couldn’t see a reason to go on living, true story. In all seriousness, though, while yeah, sure, I could probably let Terry just eat his dinner rather than spending ten minutes photographing the hell out of it, the flip side of being so focused on the Instagram-potential (Even my parents have started to use the word “Instagrammable”…) of everything you see, is that it really makes you stop for a second (or, OK, quite a few seconds) and appreciate things you might not otherwise have paid much attention to.

I really noticed this when Terry and I were in Tenerife last year. We were staying on a part of the island we’ve visited a few times now, but this year I suddenly found myself noticing things that had always been there, but which I’ve previously just looked at without really seeing. Now that I look at everything through an iPhone lens, however, I’ve started to really pay attention to the details of the streets I walk down and the landscapes I pass by every day. I’ve started to see the beauty in a crumbling old wall, or a cup of coffee, and you can laugh all you like, but I think that’s pretty cool, all things considered.

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It taught me everything I know about style

I mean, I’m not saying I know a LOT about style, obviously, but everything I DO know, I learned from blogging – and specifically by taking photos of my outfits and then looking back at them. That hasn’t always been a pleasant experience: last week, for instance, I took two sets of outfit photos which will never see the light of day (and in one case, the thing I was wearing went right into the “donate” pile the second I got home), but at least I know now that those particular items/styles don’t really work for me. I would never have known that from all of the fashion magazines I used to read, or from the myriad of advice that’s out there on the internet. I probably wouldn’t even have learned it by trial and error, because sometimes I find that an outfit that looks just fine in the mirror will look all kinds of awful on camera: I know the camera can lie, but probably not THAT much, so I’ll always be grateful to blogging for helping me understand my style a little better, and helping me (slowly) build a wardrobe that I can one day be proud of.

It helped me document my memories

A lot of this actually links back to my first point, about taking photos of things. Before I started blogging, it would never have occurred to me to take a photo of myself purely to document what I was wearing – and yes, I know, some of you probably think that would’ve been a GOOD thing, but when I look back on photos from years ago, those are the details that most interest me. I mean, let’s face it, most of us aren’t that interested in flicking through tons of photos of scenery or whatever, but it’s really fun to look back and remember what you were like back then – which includes things like how you used to dress and do your hair.

If someone were to break into my house and go through all of my photo albums (the ACTUAL albums, I mean, not the ones on my computer), they’d probably assume I grew up on a horse ranch in Florida, because most of the photos I have of myself are from holidays or riding lessons. If you looked at the ones from the early years of my relationship with Terry, meanwhile, you’d assume he always used to travel alone: again, the only shots are from holidays, Christmas, etc, and because he was always more into video than photography, I’d be behind the lens, rather than in front of it. It actually seems really strange to me now that it didn’t ever occur to me to document a regular day, as opposed to the “different” ones – and it definitely didn’t occur to me (or not often, anyway!) to hand the camera to someone else, and ask them to take a photo just of ME. I mean, how weird would THAT have been, right?

It gave me confidence in my writing

Writing has always been my “thing”. I’m the kind of person who can’t really have a thought or an experience without wanting to immediately get it down on paper, and I can’t even remember a time when that wasn’t the case. I’ve probably written hundreds of thousands of words over the course of my life, but until I started a blog (And by “a blog” I mean “a Livejournal”, which, same kinda thing…), I hadn’t allowed anyone to read any of them. (Well, other than that “novel” I wrote when I was eleven. I was pretty sure that book was going to make my fortune, so I let my friends read it, and for the first time ever, I find myself feeling really grateful that I didn’t have a lot of friends back then…) I mean that literally, by the way: I remember in my final year of high school, we had to submit a personal essay, which counted towards our final mark. I was so freaked out at the thought of anyone actually READING my writing (I mean, can you EVEN?!) that I threatened to pull out of the class – aaaand now I’m starting to understand WHY I didn’t have many friends. GOD.

(You can totally see why journalism was the natural career choice for me, can’t you? Ahem.)

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Working in journalism really helped build my confidence in my writing, but of course, the writing I was doing back then wasn’t exactly personal/creative, so it was blogging that really made the difference here. When I started my blog, it was the first time I’d actively WANTED people to read what I had to say, and I guess that was the biggest change of all for me. I still have my moments when I worry about people actually reading this thing – one of the main reasons I don’t ever give copy approval on sponsored posts is because I always feel completely mortified by the idea of clients poring over my words before they’re actually published – but it goes without saying that if I hadn’t managed to get over that particular hurdle, I wouldn’t be where I am today – doing a job I love, and still having to pinch myself sometimes, just to make sure I’m not imagining it.

And that’s how blogging changing my life.

  • Such a wonderful blog post!
    I don’t earn a living from blogging, but it has changed my life, though.
    As you said it is great to document your life. I for example love to go through my travelling category. Before I had my blog, I almost never took photos and therefore there are only a few memories of my previous journeys. This is totally different now. πŸ˜‰

    Enjoy Sunday!
    Many hugs,
    Sandra <3

    July 3, 2016
  • Charlotte


    I love this post. I’m in a different situation to you because I actually love my job and started my first blog ( as a way to talk about my anxiety, depression and fibromyalgia. After blogging over there for a year and following many other blogs I thought you know what I would like to start a fashion blog. It took me ages to finally get the confidence to do it, but now I have just launched and I really hope to learn about myself1

    July 3, 2016
  • This post is so lovely to read and to see just how much you’ve gained from doing what you love. I really like your first point and it’s something I notice in myself too – while wanting to photograph everything sometimes feels a bit silly, it does also make me take note of the beauty around me and see things I wouldn’t otherwise. And I enjoy documenting the every day too, because that’s what I really enjoy reading back, perhaps more than I do reminiscing about the big events.
    Jennifer x
    Ginevrella | Lifestyle Blog

    July 3, 2016
  • It’s change mine in numerous good ways too πŸ™‚ The number one way it’s changed mine is that it’s made me feel less alone. Being introverted can be be a hard way to be when it comes to making friends, but I’ve made so many online friends, some of which have and will become offline friends too. It’s an amazing thing to be able to interact with lots of likeminded people through something I write for my own amusement. Even though sometimes it’s hard to keep going (like right now, when I’m staring down a house move and my spare time being consumed by decorating), I will keep at it because ultimately I love it and know the good outweighs the bad by a mile πŸ™‚

    July 3, 2016
    • Totally agree with you here Cici ~ blogging has changed my life in helping me find like minded people to connect with; people that share and get my style and my kind of creativity… That community is invaluable for the relationships we can build!

      And I’m also with you Amber, I loveeee the day-to-day documenting side of blogging. It helps me to stop and really look at life as it goes by, it helps me remember the small details that so often get lost but can evoke such memories of times gone by… ❀

      bonita of Lavender & Twill

      July 4, 2016
  • My kids groan when I pull out my camera and they tell me that everything doesn’t need to be documented. I say it does because these are my memories and, dang blast it, when I am 92 and can’t remember them on my own I want to look back and know I had a good life. That being said, we just got back from a week in Chicago and there isn’t one single picture of me. I think I need to do a better job of handing the camera to someone else occasionally.

    I am slightly horrified at the idea of clothes looking fine in the mirror but terrible in photos. Maybe I should start photographing my own outfits just to see? Or maybe not? They say ignorance is bliss.

    July 3, 2016
  • Love love love. I completely agree! It is so cool to go back to old articles and remember something that had totally slipped my mind… I would have lost all those memories if they hadn’t been documented on the blog. And there is something wonderful about looking at the world through that blogging/photography lens and appreciating it all in a whole new way!

    July 3, 2016
  • D


    You have inspired me to start my own blog. I am soaking up all your hints and tricks here…and reading your book. The planning for launch is taking shape, I have a name (title), and logo. A launch in the fall is my goal. Young people inspire and delight me (that would include you).
    So thank you – for helping me reinvent my life one more time.

    July 30, 2017
  • Hey Amber I absolutely loved this post as I so totally get it. Brilliantly, written from start to finish it’s filled with passion, power , and purpose and shows why your a blogger I really enjoy reading .

    Keep up the amazing work

    Best Wishes
    Gayle XXX

    July 30, 2017
  • Sara


    LOVED reading this post. I am getting ready to start my first blog, and I am really hoping it will do a lot for me. I’m feeling a little lost, so I hope that sharing my stories, thoughts, and experiences will help bring me back to who I really am and what I really want my life to be.

    Thank you for sharing, inspiring, and helping me believe this could really be me!

    July 31, 2017
  • Really inspiring post Amber and I loved reading your book – I literally read it in a day! For me i think in the early days it can feel quite hard (getting the readers and stats) but I enjoy writing for myself so will keep going and build on it over time.

    August 4, 2017
  • I lobe this! Blogging has changed my life in so many ways as well. Mainly that it’s helped me develop new skills and get outside my comfort zone

    May 26, 2019